Welcome to Jason's world! Where unopened milk doesn't need refrigeration, where long-boarding injuries are quite common, where plugins have switches, where looking like a caveman is acceptable, where it's weird to carry American cash, where slushies cost $4, where geckos are more common than squirrels and your family is 30+ students with all different ethnicities. Thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this each week! It is super encouraging when I hear that someone is enjoying the things God has been revealing to me. I just want to make it clear that the ONLY way I'm able to write the things that I've written, is through the power & discipleship of our All Mighty God. I pray that your heart is open to what he is trying to say through these posts & that you understand that the stories I share come from me joining God's journey for my life, not my journey trying to involve God. I am continuing to grow & struggle through the things I've been experiencing.
This week in lectures, a Godly couple spoke on relationships. They have been serving our base for years throughout their marriage and do an awesome job of working together in unity to demonstrate what Godly relationships look like. We learned about 1) Our relationship with God, 2) Our relationships with others, and 3) Our relationship with that special someone.
"Relationships are what's most important." - Michael Scott (My father, not that other guy) These are the words that I carried into this week and these are the words that I carried out of this week.
1) Greatest commandment "Love God'
- God has always been a relational God.
- Genesis 1:26 "Then God said, "Let us make mankind in our image." Who is "us"?
- Father, Son and the Holy Spirit!
- Our relationship with God will improve our personal relationships with others, along with our character.
- Those who walk with God have a Christian community around them.
- You must be committed to a local church so can be encouraged in your faith & journey.
Committing to a local church is something I really struggled with back home. I felt warn out and like I was wasting my time, because everything seemed irrelevant. They talked about the importance of church and how it is Christ's bride. For example: If our best friend met a guy or girl we didn't necessarily approve of, we would either need to change our attitude towards that person or we would become disconnected with our best friend. God intended for a body of believers to gather in his name to praise him. Also, no church is perfect, but when you get involved with a small/core group of believers, you can share your struggles and ask for prayer!
James 5:16 "Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective." - We are our brother's keeper and it is our business to help those who are close to us that are struggling.
2) 2nd Greatest commandment "Love Others"
- John 14:15 Jesus says, "If you love me, you will obey what I command."
- In order to obey his 1st commandment, we need to obey the rest of his commandments.
- 1 John 4:20 "If anyone says, "I love God," yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For anyone who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, whom he has not seen."
- Ouch, there are so many people that I don't love...
Motives: Can I be a great person & love others without Christ? Do I love others for personal fulfillment?
Our relationships with others needs to glorify God in all ways and this doesn't mean putting on a front and not allow others to see us when we're weak. When conflicts arise it is easy to run, hide, or ignore the issue. However, conflicts can: create opportunities for growth, heighten creativity, help people think with a broader perspective, help others express their true feelings.
When confronting: Go to the person, think it through, no personal attacks, use "I" not "You" language, listen, offer a solution & pray.
When confronted: Paraphrase your understanding, ask questions/clarify, ask for time to pray/process the situation, reveal thoughts & solution.
Both parties: Seek Godly mature counsel, express sympathy & sincerity, make plans for next step, pray for each other and a heart for each other.
3) Relationship with a special someone
It isn't healthy to skip steps in a relationship. God created this type of Love to only be enjoyed between a man & woman who are under a covenant together through marriage. Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord."
Relational advice:
- What are your motives for this relationship?
- How you begin a relationship will influence how it continues.
- Be careful if you are "pot heavy". In poker, if you have too many chips in it is extremely difficult to get out. Don't commit too much too soon or you will experience great tribulation.
- Get to know their family and friends. This is where their true character comes out. Character will stand the test of time, but good looks will perish in time.
- PRAY ABOUT IT!!
For further marriage advice, contact my parents :)
I apologize for the extensive posts. I've tried to simplify, but there's so much to share. Here's my past week:
Tuesday - My outreach group met up & learned more of what we'll be doing (I'll share more next post). We worked on a couple skits we'll be performing & in one of them I'm Jesus. There's a decent amount to learn, but my beard does most of the acting anyways. We're really coming together so thank you for your prayers!
Wednesday - We had a special dinner where we all dressed up & our staff served us our dinner & washed our feet. It was a really humbling experiences & brought back awesome memories of NTS (Never The Same) camp from high school. My appearance really flourished this night & there's a picture below!
Thursday - Five of our students decided to get baptized in the ocean and it was an incredible experience. I have always had a love for baptisms and hope to personally get baptized this summer when I return home :)
Changing gears...
Friday night a group of us were at the beach when we saw sirens nearby. We decided to go see what was going on & upon our arrival I saw a medical team performing CPR on a girl who had been hit by a car. A girl named Katelyn was crossing the street when she was hit by a car. Her friends were kneeling together nearby on the grass with emotions pouring out. I was in disbelief & never expected something so tragic to happen on such an ordinary night. We started to pray with those huddled together, crying out to God to pour out his mercy. This was one of the most horrific situations I have ever experienced, even though I had never met this 20yr old girl. The ambulance eventually took Katelyn away & we said our last prayers with her best friends & boyfriend who were there. My heart cried out for this girl who supposedly had no relationship with her Father in Heaven. The following morning we heard that Katelyn never made it. Today, this only fuels my passion to tell others about Christ (the greatest relationship you will EVER experience!) so that they can be delivered from death & experience Eternal Life.
Apart from this event, I had a fantastic week/weekend. The surfer guys got back from their road trip & it's good to chill with them again. We take off for the Philippines this Saturday (4/28) & I won't really have internet while I'm there. Our group will keep a blog so I'll post that before I leave. Shout out to all my supporters! Thanks to my family Mom, Dad, Jessica, Kendall, Tarah, Taylor, Mariah & Charlie for all your love & encouragement! This is already a crazy week full of packing & last minute shopping.
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My buddy Dayne & I before our dinner! Yes we used surf wax on our staches'. |
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Slowly yet surely |
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Surfers paradise! |
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Surf crew! |
Prayer Requests:
- Unity & patients within our group & wisdom for our leaders.
- Love for the people of the Philippines & Fiji.
- Discipline for me to set aside time to seek God daily.
- Safe travels
- For boldness to speak out & discernment for spiritually heavy times.